Singles Internet Questions And Answers - www.internetplanet.org

Christians really use dating sites?

2012-01-06T10:26:00.000-08:00

Church have singles in them. If they attend church at all they certainly would not be using a dating site. Amen?

The Occult In Your Living Room

2012-01-04T22:52:00.000-08:00

Still not convinced who controls the earth? God does not recognize church buildings. Just individuals who worship in their spirit. Christianity is not a religion
Grace is a free gift. It cannot be earned or merited. But salvation that does not move us out of our self-destructive and rebellious ways is counterfeit. Repentance is a life change!

Why Christians Avoid Dating Sites

2011-12-26T07:27:00.000-08:00

Satan has devised many wordy Christian dating and mingles sites quoting scripture and testimonials to ensnare the unsuspecting Christian man and woman to join them with "soul mates." It is true they will find you a soul mate. But Christian beware. There are no soul mates in Christianity. These sites even use demonic logos. The all seeing Eye of Rah is used as the logo for Christian Mingle, AOL, and countless others. To be safe, Do not join sites carrying logos, EVER. They're usually dedicated symbols to summon financial prosperity through demonic means.

Spirit Wives and Spirit Husbands: Their intent is to destroy lives through lustful desires that will draw you hellward. They are the authors of your "wet dreams."
“Read About incubus” and “succubus” spirits

Christians Do Date Non-Christians: Realize demons operate THROUGH PEOPLE to enter the life of a Christian to destroy.

An open mind is the devils playground..

Young Women Who Marry Older Men

2011-11-26T12:14:00.000-08:00

Why do people think men and women are at the same place at the same age? Ancient societies had young women marrying older men, and the divorce rate was zero. So why can't we return to the way things should be?

Christians Worldwide On AOL

2011-09-18T06:46:00.001-07:00

If unsure if AOL is a porn site, take a quick glance at what AOL facilitate in their chats and the kind of people in them. Do not mingle on this unclean thing. Secure other free email accounts.

Dating Non - Christians

2011-09-12T22:23:00.000-07:00

You are not the same as those who do not believe. So do not join yourselves to them. Good and bad do not belong together. Light and darkness cannot share together - (2 Corinthians 6:14)

God's Word on Dating Non-Christians

There may be a male shortage for secular culture. Not in God's community!

Adding All Christians To Payroll - www.internetplanet.org

2011-09-12T11:44:00.000-07:00

Helping to eliminate unemployment
http://www.internetplanet.org/joininternetpayroll.html

John Boehner Just May Be The Anti Christ

2011-09-08T16:42:00.000-07:00

Your record in support of legislation to address the desperate needs of the poor is among the worst in Congress.
John Boehner Just May Be The Anti Christ

legalizing Immorality

2011-06-18T14:43:00.000-07:00

What do we think of same sex marriages?
We are ecstatic about it! Christians look forward to the return of our Lord Jesus Christ to Judge the world. Current global financial unrest and collaps, tornadoes destroying city by city, town by town, disasters, etc. and now legalizing marriages contrary to the will of God tells us His judgement of the earth is near. We as individuals are judged the very moment we die. If we die outside Jesus, we are sent to hell. There are no back doors into Ever Lasting Life. The revelation for 2012 is no accident. World Judgment is near. Rapture will happen within the next 2 years. But no one knows the time and day. So please do not go selling your property as so many have been mislead into doing. None of the money is going with you anyhow..

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Is the Entertainment Industry Demonic?

2011-02-02T18:54:00.000-08:00

Have celebs sold themself to the devil in exchange for fame? The devil tempted Jesus with the same. Although you can Google many admitting to doing just that, Internet Cafe is issuing a challenge to anyone to produce one single photo of a hollywood celebrity sitting in or exiting a Church Of Christ. Just ONE image. Movie clip not accepted

Email it to internet_village@earthlink.net

Is AOL Promoting Phedophilia?

2010-12-27T09:36:00.000-08:00

AOL AIM IS OUT OF BUSINESS

2010-12-10T07:42:00.001-08:00

2010 was victorious! Desolving AOL Personals and AIM pleased us greatly. But AOL chat rooms still hold pedophiles, satanists and mental cases spreading their brand of misery and treachery into homes across America. We'll continue to pressure AOL advertisers to stop advertising there. Meanwhile visit AOL Losing Subscribers

AOL's Shortage of Women

2010-11-29T05:58:00.000-08:00

The deterioration of AOL came with free membership. Under pressure to remain competitive with Myspace and Facebook, AOL began to offer free membership as an incentive for members to remain as users of their chatroom. Unfortunately, this has had just the opposite effect. AOL is now the HUB for porn marketers and prostitutes, leaving men to complain forever about Bots. The women have left AOL for greener pastures of quality men, leaving behind the more elderly women who feel little hope for meeting decent men on that service. Internetplanet.org and Facebook, E-Harmony and others are now the main source for women seeking their special someone.

AOL apparently has become the center for internet immorality, far surpassing AFF and Myspace.

Your comments are welcomed.

AOL SOFTWARE IS SPYWARE?

2010-10-31T04:30:00.000-07:00

We know just about everyone in existence has wondered about the AOL sotware and how much access it gives AOL to all your computer files. It is well known that corporate America frowns on installing the AOL software on their systems. Here is the answer.

Why So Many Gay Teens Commit Suicide

2010-09-30T08:28:00.000-07:00

Has social networks INCREASED the number of women who now pay alimony?

2010-08-23T12:58:00.000-07:00

Free Sites Vs Pay Sites!

2010-08-19T08:48:00.000-07:00

Everyone across the Globe knows what's found on free sites - Men dangling the privates on cam while harassing women, even minors, who stumble onto them to show their privates on cam. Predators identify pay sites as scams. Pay sites require two things a free site can not afford to have because they depend on advertisers: A credit card and social etiquette. Credit cards deters lust filled predators from joining, knowing that they can be traced for crimes committed against others using the service. Pay sites therefore are not as large as free sites but they are A LOT safer & friendlier..

Jobless and Contemplating Suicide? Tell us about it.

2010-07-08T14:33:00.000-07:00

Can a man be a tramp?

2010-06-26T07:01:00.000-07:00

If a woman sleeps around, she is classified as a tramp or prostitute. If a man does the same he is just being a man?

Latest Cheaters and Undesirable Women

2010-05-16T07:52:00.000-07:00

Those who claim to truly love their mate yet seek others online to sleep with ARE cheaters. They cheat before AND after marriage because that is what they ARE and most likely came from a family who did the same things in their marriage.

The question is how do you spot one BEFORE you fall for one and do you KNOW a few?
Give 'em up! Turn 'em here!

Online Dating Nightmares

2010-02-11T05:34:00.000-08:00

Could you forgive and stay with your mate if they cheated?

2009-10-02T21:55:00.000-07:00

Is the Internet just for low life and sickos?

2009-09-22T12:08:00.000-07:00

I ask because that is all I see. Prostitution, sexual deviants and predators, criminals seeking victims, adulturers, etc. AOL is the worst with myspace a close second. I am single seeking a good woman. It's real discouraging..

My mom and dad are trolling myspace and aol

2009-09-05T21:34:00.000-07:00

How do I get my parents off them? They are being goofed on and played with by my friends who say they are on there trolling for sex. They are sending messages to my parents just to show me anyone can get them in bed. My dad fell for a message from someone I know who was posing as a 16 year old girl and my mom is getting the same goof. They are embarrasing me so much I think I want to die.

Majority Rules!

2009-07-12T10:23:00.000-07:00

[Jesus said] "Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the
gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many
enter through it. But small is the gate and narrow the road that
leads to life, and only a few find it. -- Matthew 7:13-14

"Majority Rules!" That's the edict of democracy. This has been the political philosophy for so many people over the course of
history. But, "majority rule" doesn't apply to the Kingdom of God.
God sets the standard, not us. The clay has no right to dictate to the potter. God's holiness is the goal, not just
trying to be better than someone else. Most, regrettably, many men and women will
never find the way of the Lord. They want it their way. One crucial
problem with wanting things our way: it leads to ultimate disaster... Hell.
God, the Creator and Sustainer of all life is the only one who can
set life's agenda. Let's ask for his help and guidance for our way!

Are You Ready For The Rapture?

2009-06-23T03:51:00.000-07:00

THIS YOUTH IS 10.5 YEARS OF AGE AND SHOULD BE COMMENDED FOR HIS GREAT EFFORTS IN LETTING ADULTS BE AWARE OF THE "N": WORD. WHAT IT TRULY REPRESENTS.

2009-06-11T07:42:00.000-07:00

The Myspace/Facebook Exodus to People Online Social Network

2009-05-30T09:00:00.000-07:00

Some users say it's because Myspace/Facebook was meant for students and now there are far too many jail baits. It's well know that because of number of child predators registered to myspace, not to mention crime and prostitution, the FBI, crime and narc squads in all 50 states run sting operations daily. We feel this is a good thing. People Online has none of those issues as our networks are run considerably different.

True Love Waits, Harlots Fornicate

2009-04-02T19:45:00.000-07:00

True Love Waits, but a Harlot Will Fornicate.
It's amazing to see that so many Christians think that waiting to have sexual relations until after marriage is a choice. It is not. Christians are not supposed to fornicate.
A never married single woman who is not a virgin and was not the victim of rape is a harlot. Various women in the Bible turned from their harlotry and turned to God, just like some of you who are reading this.
When a Christian who is a virgin decides to have sexual relations outside of marriage she has decided to turn away from God and to make the man who she fornicates with into a little god. Let me repeat this for those of you who just don't listen very well. A Christian man or a Christian woman who has sexual relations outside of marriage has decided to turn from the faith. You have read this and you have been warned. Do not turn from the faith. Turning from the faith can happen in small steps. The first step is to consider doing something that is forbidden such as having sexual relations outside of marriage or just wishing that you could. There is one answer for this: in order to avoid "fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband." 1 Corinthians 7:2
It's interesting to note that the above words translated as "her own" and "his own" are quite different. The word translated here as "her own" is the Greek word "idios" which means one of a kind while the word translated here as "his own" is the Greek word "heautou" and is used in sentences where the Bible speaks of someone possessing one or more of something. Notice in the verse that follows how "himself" - Greek "heautou" refers to seven spirits. So when heautou is used in this sentence it means there can be more than one possessed.
Matthew 12:45 Then goeth he, and taketh with himself (Greek - heautou) seven other spirits more wicked than himself, and they enter in and dwell there: and the last [state] of that man is worse than the first. Even so shall it be also unto this wicked generation.
The first instance above of the word "himself" is heautou and means possessed by someone but not as one of a kind. As you see he possessed seven.
1 Corinthians 7:2 is a clear example of where the the language of the Bible (in this case, Greek) acknowledges that a man can have more than one wife. Had Paul wanted to push monogamy he would have used the word "idios" and not "heautou".
This understanding of the difference in limitations upon women and men is important because single Christian women around the world are being denied husbands because of the false teaching that a man can have only one wife.
Married men who refuse to marry a virgin who the Lord has provided them may end up guilty of causing such a woman to commit fornication. Just like the man who divorces his wife without cause, causes her to commit adultery, a man who refuses to marry a virgin who the Lord has provided for him may cause her to commit harlotry or some other kind of fornication. Jesus expected that a divorced woman would not be content to go without sex thus the improperly divorced woman (i.e. still married) would have sex and the man who (improperly) divorced her guilty of causing her to seek sex from someone other than him. In the same way, a woman who has had a husband chosen for her by the Lord but who has been deprived of that God given husband, because of the man made custom of monogamy, will end up doing one of the following:
1. Have sex outside of marriage. (harlotry) - About one third of single Christian women will fall into this sin
2. Marry an unbeliever. (fornication) - About one third of single Christian women will fall into this sin
3. Marry a single Christian man. - About one third of Christian women will have this opportunity.
These statistics are fairly accurate for non-Western countries and since the overwhelming number of Christians in the world no longer reside in the West I have chosen to use these numbers. However, in Western countries, a Christian virgin is very difficult to find and if she is willing to live her life properly she will have no problem whatsoever in finding a husband.
Now since the non-Western countries have far more Christian women than Christian men, there is little chance that their Christian women will find an unmarried Christian man to marry therefore we can cross out option 3 for two thirds of their women and you can understand how the statement that I made is valid: Married men who refuse to marry a virgin who the Lord has provided them may end up guilty of causing such a woman to commit fornication.
In fact, I've shown that in two out of three cases this will indeed be the outcome. The the hardness of hearts and the bowing down to the golden calf of monogamy by married Christian men is depriving two thirds of the women in the world of a godly husband. There is no gift of singleness. Women want marriage.
Since I originally wrote this article much has changed. The number of Christians outside of the United States has increased dramatically and so has the imbalance between Christian women and Christian men in those countries. Since Christian women outside of the West tend to witness primarily to other women there are twice as many women being witnessed to as men and soon the imbalance will reach epic proportions. Within ten years we could see as many as five Christian women in non-Western countries for every Christian man. What you may be doubting today as some incredible tale will be reality. Furthermore, the Christian women will take matters into their own hands and start marrying the already married Christian men.
"And in that day seven women shall take hold of one man, saying, We will eat our own bread, and wear our own apparel: only let us be called by thy name, to take away our reproach." Isaiah 4:1.

Note: If you have questions or comments concerning this, please reply below.

Is your mate sleeping with their internet friends on AOL, Myspace, Facebook, etc..

2009-03-03T02:50:00.000-08:00

What do you think of CNN running ads promoting extramarital affairs in marriage?

2009-02-07T03:33:00.000-08:00

Do you believe homosexuals are born gay or raised gay? Why?

2009-02-02T16:42:00.000-08:00

Would you allow your 14 year old daughter to date someone nice, friendly, mature, with manners and respect but 17 years old?

2009-01-20T21:32:00.001-08:00

Banks Robbing America!

2009-01-10T08:07:00.000-08:00

Banks are supposed to be a place where your money is deposited and kept safe. Many use direct deposit of their paychecks into their accounts. Unfortunately, many Americans are now being robbed blind by $35 overdraft fees charged by banks. Banks will clear a $2.00 transaction to your account a charge your account $35 for doing so. No one wants a $2.00 transaction cleared if they know the bank is going to charge them $35.

The facts:
Millions of Americans are getting their entire paychecks taken away by their bank in overdraft fee. This amounts to robbing and plundering the American public. In an economy that is already down the tubes, Banks are feeding the problem by taking consumer money away.

SPEAK OUT!!!!

Remarks from CBS Sunday Morning (everyone should read!)

2008-12-22T06:46:00.000-08:00

The following was written by Ben Stein and recited by him on CBS Sunday Morning

Commentary.

My confession:

I am a Jew, and every single one of my ancestors was Jewish. And it does not bother me even a little bit when people call those beautiful lit up, bejeweled trees, Christmas trees.. I don't feel threatened. I don't feel discriminated against. That's what they are: Christmas trees.

It doesn't bother me a bit when people say, 'Merry Christmas' to me. I don't think they are slighting me or getting ready to put me in a ghetto. In fact, I kind of like it It shows that we are all brothers and sisters celebrating this happy time of year. It doesn't bother me at all that there is a manger scene on display at a key intersection near my beach house in Malibu . If people want a crèche, it's just as fine with me as is the Menorah a few hundred yards away.

I don't like getting pushed around for being a Jew, and I don't think Christians like getting pushed around for being Christians. I think people who believe in God are sick and tired of getting pushed around, period. I have no idea where the concept came from that America is an explicitly atheist country. I can't find it in the Constitution and I don't like it being shoved down my throat.

Or maybe I can put it another way: where did the idea come from that we should worship celebrities and we aren't allowed to worship God as we understand Him? I guess that's a sign that I'm getting old, too. But there are a lot of us who are wondering where these celebrities came from and where the America we knew went to.

In light of the many jokes we send to one another for a laugh, this is a little different: This is not intended to be a joke; it's not funny, it's intended to get you thinking.

Billy Graham's daughter was interviewed on the Early Show and Jane Clayson asked her 'How could God let something like this happen?' (regarding Katrina) Anne Graham gave an extremely profound and insightful response. She said, 'I believe God is deeply saddened by this, just as we are, but for years we've been telling God to get out of our schools, to get out of our government and to get out of our lives. And being the gent leman He is, I believe He has calmly backed out. How can we expect God to give us His blessing and His protection if we demand He leave us alone?'

In light of recent events... terrorists attack, school shootings, etc. I think it started when Madeleine Murray O'Hare (she was murdered, her body found a few years ago) complained she didn't want prayer in our schools, and we said OK. Then someone said you better not read the Bible in school. The Bible says thou shalt not kill, thou shalt not steal, and love your neighbor as yourself. And we said OK.

Then Dr. Benjamin Spock said we shouldn't spank our children when they misbehave because their little personalities would be warped and we might damage their self-esteem ( D r Spock's son committed suicide ). We said an expert should know what he's talking about. And we said OK.

Now we're asking ourselves why our children have no conscience, why they don't know right from wrong, and why it doesn't bother them to kill strangers, their classmates, and themselves.

Probably, if we think about it long and hard enough, we can figure it out. I think it has a great deal to do with 'WE REAP WHAT WE SOW.'

Funny how simple it is for people to trash God and then wonder why the world's going to hell Funny how we believe what the newspapers say, but question what the Bible says. Funny how you can send 'jokes' through e-mail and they spread like wildfire but when you start sending messages regarding the Lord, people think twice about sharing. Funny how lewd, crude, vulgar and obscene articles pass freely through cyberspace, but public discussion of God is suppressed in the school and workplace.

Are you laughing yet?

Funny how when you forward this message, you will not send it to many on

your address list because you're not sure what they believe, or what they

will think of you for sending it.

Funny how we can be more worried about what other people think of us than what God thinks of us.

Pass it on if you think it has merit. If not then just discard it... no one will know you did. But, if you discard this thought process, don't sit back and complain about what bad shape the world is in.

My Best Regards, Honestly and respectfully,

Ben Stein

Could you forgive and stay with your mate if they cheated?

2008-12-09T20:25:00.000-08:00

With the many instances of infidelity among married men and women on social networking sites, could you forgive and stay with your mate if they were caught with a webpage on one?

Should christians do oral sex?

2008-12-06T03:22:00.000-08:00

Doctor's faith under scrutiny...

2008-12-03T16:09:00.000-08:00

Many believes that when a doctor prescribes birth control pills to an unmarried women, he unwittingly promotes sex outside of marriage, because he removes the fear of pregnancy.

America's social perversions

2008-11-14T16:29:00.000-08:00

With so many many online lesbians, bisexuals, homosexuals, pervs, DL men and women and children of perdition online the Internet, church is the only place left to find decent men and women to know and marry.

Imagine that.. The only reason secular culture hate and laughs at Christians is because we won't engage them or their immoralities.. Just like God said they would. Sodom was full of these people before God ordered them to be destroyed.

JL

About rape drugs used at dance clubs

2008-10-06T11:16:00.000-07:00

A woman at a nightclub was recently taken on a Saturday night by 5 men, who according to hospital and police reports, gang raped her.

Tests later confirmed repeat rapes and along with traces of Rohypnol in her blood and Progesterex, which is essentially a small sterilization pill. The drug is now being used by rapists at parties to rape AND sterilize their victims.

The drug's effects ARE NOT TEMPORARY-They are P*E*R*M*A*N*E*N*T! Progesterex was designed to sterilize horses. Any female who takes it WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO CONCEIVE.

Progesterex is available to vets to sterilize large animals. Rumour has it that Progesterex is being used together with Rohypnol, the date rape drug. As with Rohypnol, all they Have to do is drop it into the girl's drink.

The girl can't remember a thing the next morning, of all that had taken place the night before. Progesterex, which dissolves in drinks just as easily, is such that the victim doesn't conceive from the rape and the rapist needn't worry about having a paternity test identifying him months later.

The weasels can get this drug from anyone who is in vet school or any university. It's that easy, and Progesterex is about to break out
big everywhere. Believe it or not, there are even sites on the Internet telling people how to. Please COPY this to everyone you know, especially girls! If you drink don't leave your drink unattended. Please make the effort to PASS this on to all you know!! Guys, please inform all your female friends and relatives.

Just want to thank the Cafe for this network

2008-10-06T10:20:00.000-07:00

I found using Internet Cafe to reach everyone on my list about things of relevance that concerns us and what is happening to us in today's economy and getting helpful tips and information from others everywhere beats buddy list and friends list by ions. I also get to add everyone in my area who joins to my list or send an email out to others in other states if I so choose. In fact the changing economy has them pretty played out since all they do is allow you to post pics and other nonsense while they sell you to advertisers, record labels, or anyone they can earn a dollar from. Will they allow you to market any personal items in your "profile?" Try it! They will call it a virus and block the link.. I think everyone is able to decide for themselves what site they want to go to and what sites they do not. I don't need them to decide for me. I closed that account. It's useless to me.

Signed
Thankful

All About McCain's VP Pick... Listen up!!!

2008-09-28T16:00:00.000-07:00

In the mist of a world financial collaspe, most young folks are plugged into their Ipod, CLUELESS!!

2008-09-28T14:29:00.000-07:00

Shouldn't Gov Palin be at home nurturing and raising her kids?

2008-09-23T19:49:00.000-07:00

Another absentee mother...

Ladies, how do you feel about marrying older men (45 and up)

2008-09-23T18:51:00.000-07:00

An AP/Yahoo poll found 1/3rd of white democrates find the vast majority of black Americans to be lazy and violent. What is your opinion of this poll?

2008-09-20T11:53:00.000-07:00

Is government control over financial institutions the prelude to "666"

2008-09-17T15:23:00.000-07:00

If you open the Book of Revelation and simply begin reading it as an unfolding scenario, it goes something like this. There will be wars and famines and disease epidemics and heavenly signs that will alert the world to some sort of crisis. Then will come an Antichrist as he's called, or a political ruler, that will establish control over the whole earth. He'll be backed up with a religious ruler, who's called the false prophet. They together establish a unified social, economic and religious system that dominates the world. The only thing opposing them are the people of God and these two prophets, they're called the two witnesses, who appear in Jerusalem, and begin to speak against this power. The rest of the book, really the last half of the book is about the overthrow of this system. The beast, the false prophet, who has the number 666, the Antichrist, is overthrown with judgments and plagues. Most of them are very cosmic. Asteroids hitting the earth. The water turning to blood and that sort of thing, until finally, Jesus Christ returns as a warrior on a white horse and sets up the kingdom of God. ...

Millions and millions of people will be sent to hell. Many think if you are a good person you will get into heaven. BIG NO. Being a good wife, husband, father, helping old ladies across the streets is not gonna help you. There is only ONE WAY there. Are you living a godless and immoral life full of sex, drugs and rock and roll? The devil owns you, lock, stock, and barrel. Enjoy the fire...

Peace

How do you feel about getting involved with a single mom or dad?

2008-09-12T22:25:00.000-07:00

Women Ruling Over Men: Godly or Demonic?

2008-09-10T17:32:00.001-07:00

Would you attend your 18 year old daughters wedding if she was marrying someone 56 years old?

2008-09-03T16:29:00.001-07:00

How important are physical appearances?

2008-09-02T19:10:00.000-07:00

Do you feel a man should take time to plan something romantic before he proposes or it doesn't matter?

2008-09-02T19:08:00.001-07:00

AIDS Terrorists

2008-08-31T18:34:00.000-07:00

Stats has it, NYC is the AIDS capital of America with Brooklyn NY as the heart of the epidemic. A fact which has spawned many AIDS Terrorists. A category of men and women so livid they have gotten it, they can't wait to spread it to unsuspecting men and women. The CNN special Black In America highlight one such victim out of thousands. By the way, Brooklyn residence should bookmark the Brooklyn AIDS Task Force website at www.batf.net

While the media will push condoms as a protection against the disease, many are so misinformed as to engage in oral sex, then putting on a condom.. Wake up call! If you engage in oral sex, you can pretty much forget the condom!

Promiscuity is a sure way to contract AIDS. Male and female playas are a dangerous people and should be avoided. Don't let the short-shorts and big breasts on a woman entice. Chances are she has attracted countless men in the same way and could be carrying the desease. The only sure fire way to escape this disease: monogamy and marriage. Could this be God talking to us?

Could you forgive and stay with your mate if they cheated?

2008-08-26T19:04:00.000-07:00

Given the many instance of infidelity among married men and women on social sites, could you forgive and stay with your mate if they cheated?

Do you feel TV has gone too far? (Gay sitcoms, Cursing on TV, etc..)

2008-08-20T18:33:00.000-07:00

Do you think society is on a downward spiral in terms of morality. There is no more right or wrong. Just as long as it does not hurt anybody when it fact, it's hurting the entire country?

White woman's opinion of black women

2008-08-16T16:44:00.000-07:00

White Woman's Opinion of Black Women
Please take a moment and read this.

It seems that an article was written to Sister 2 Sister magazine by a Caucasian woman who requested a response from black men. I'm so glad she got what she asked for, and more..

Dear Jamie:
I'm sorry but I would like to challenge some of your Black male readers. I am a White female who is engaged to a Black male-good-looking, educated and loving. I just don't understand a lot of Black female's attitude s about our relationship. My man decided he wanted me because the pickings amongst Black women were slim to none. As he said they were either too fat, too loud, too mean, too argumentative, too needy, too materialistic or carrying too much excess baggage.
Before I became engaged, whenever I went out I was constantly approached by Black men, willing to wine and dine me and give me the world. If Black women are so up in arms about us being with their men, why don't they look at themselves and make some changes. I am tired of the dirty looks I get and snide remarks when we're out in public. I would like to hear from some Black men about why we are so appealing and coveted by them. Bryant Gumbel just left his wife of 26 years for one of us Charles Barkley, Scottie Pippen, the model Tyson Beckford, Montell Williams, Quincy Jones, James Earl Jones, Harry Belafonte, Sydney Poitier, Kofi Anan, Cuba Gooding Jr., Don Cornelius, Berry Gordy, Billy Blanks, Larry Fishburne, Wesley Snipes...
I could go on and on. But, right now, I'm a little angry and that is why I wrote this so hurriedly. Don't be mad with us White women because so many of your men want us. Get your acts together and learn from us and we may lead you to treat your men better. If I'm wrong, Black men, let me know.

Disgusted White Girl, Somewhere in VA

RESPONSE

Dear Jamie:
I would like to respond to the letter written by A Disgusted White Girl. Let me start by saying that I am a 28-year old black man. I graduated from one of the most prestigious universities in Atlanta, Georgia with a Bachelor of Arts Degree in Business Management. I have a good job at a major corporation and have recently purchased a house. So, I consider myself to be among the ranks of successful black men. I will not use my precious time to slander white people. I just want to set the record straight of why black men date white women. Back in the day, one of the biggest reasons why black men dated white women was because they were considered easy. The black girls in my neighborhood were raised in the church. They were very strict about when they lost their virginity and who they lost it to. Because of our imp atience to wait, brothers would look for someone who would give it up easy without too much hassle. So, they turned to the white girls.
Nowadays, in my opinion, a lot of brothers date white women because they are docile and easy to control. A lot of black men, because of insecurities, fears, and overall weaknesses, have become intimidated by the strength of our black women. We are afraid that our woman will be more successful than us, make more money than us, drive nicer cars and own bigger houses. Because of this fear, many black men look for a more docile woman. Someone we can control. I have talked to numerous black men and they continuously comment on how easy it is to control and walk over their white women. I just want to set the record straight. I want A Disgusted White Girl to know that not all successful black men date white women. Brothers like Ahmad Rashad, Denzel Washington, Michael Jordan, Morris Chestnut, Will Smith, Blair Underwood, Kenneth 'Babyface' Edmonds, Samuel L. Jackson, and Chris Rock all married strong black women And, to flip the script, there are numerous white men, in and out of the spot light, who openly or secretly desire black women over white women. Ted Danson, Robert DeNiro, and David Bowie to name a few. I just don't want a disgusted white girl to be misinformed. Stop thinking that because you are white that you are some type of goddess. Remember, when black Egyptian Queens like Hatsepshut and Nitorcris were ruling Dynasties and armies of men in Egypt , you were over in the caves of Europe eating raw meat and beating each other over the head with clubs.
Read your history! It was the black woman that taught y ou how to cook and season your food. It was the black woman that taught you how to raise your children. It was black women who were breast feeding and raising your babies dur ing slavery.
It is the black woman that had to endure watching their fathers, husbands, and children beaten, killed, and thrown in jail. Black women were born with two strikes against them: being black and being a woman. And, through all this, Still They Rise! It is because of the black women's strength, elegance, power, love and beauty that I could never date anyone except my black Queen. It is not just the outer beauty that captivates and draws me to them. It is not the fact that they come in all shapes, sizes, colors and shades that I love them. Their inner beauty is what I find most appealing about black women. Their strong spirit, loving and nurturing souls, their integrity, their ability to overcom e great obstacles, their willingness to stand for what they believe in, and their determination to succeed and reach their highest potential while enduring great pain and suffering is why I have fallen in love with black women.

I honestly believe that your anger is geared more toward jealousy and envy more so than snotty looks. If this were not so, then why do you continuously go to tanning salons to darken your skin? If you are so proud to be white, then why don't you just be happy with your pale skin?

Why do you continue to inject your lips, hips, and breasts with unnatural and dangerous substances so you can look fuller and more voluptuous?
I think that your anger is really a result of you wanting to have what the black woman has.

BOTTOM LINE: If I were looking for a docile woman, someone I can walk over and control, I would give you a call. But, unfortunately, I am looking for a Virtuous Woman. Someone that can be a good wife and mother to my children.
Someone who can be my best friend and understands my struggles.
I am looking for a soul mate. I am looking for a sister and; unfortunately, you do not and CANNOT fit the bill. No offense taken, none given.

Signed, Black Royalty

In need of assistance..

2008-08-07T15:00:00.000-07:00

Anyone out there hiring?

How is everyone doing with the job market the way it is?

2008-08-07T14:49:00.000-07:00

How is everyone doing with the job market the way it is? Many have lost much and have had to change their way of life while others are flaunting their excess in the face of the less fortunate. It kind of make you glad there is a hell for them, doesn't it?

Myspace, Facebook and Social Disasters

2008-08-02T06:50:00.001-07:00

Your search produced 10,000 of 1,234,320 results
Who sits and looks through 10,000 profiles??
If you are a man, women returned by your search results are getting tons of mail from men. As most men already know, women do not contact men. The share magnitude of creeps registering free accounts is downright unreasonable. You view someones page and find they have over 500 "friends" at the very least. That pretty much says that person is tired. So what are YOUR odds as a man? Imagine a woman receiving minute by minute email notices from men wanting to be her "friend" and showing pictures of their penis in hopes of enticing them away from their hubby, parents, boyfriend, etc. This is typical of that site I tend to call a public toilet. Nice place for your daughters to mingle, yes? That's why I love Internet Planet. I love reading heartfelt letters and this is the place for it. Weeding out those who can't spell or write is very easy and one line shout outs get deleted automatically by CCO. CCO does not allow prostitutes networking and porn ads. Can't beat THAT!

My space, face book and AIDS
Any woman who is that loose with you has had countless others JUST LIKE YOU. Don't be fooled. I once wrote My space about posting something for AIDS Awareness week to Brooklyn, NY members on their pages since they could very well be a MAJOR venue for the spreading of this social disease. They ignored it. AIDS is not their problem I guess, or perhaps they cannot turn a profit from it.

Girls.... Still the Devil's favorite weapon
Profiles containing images of sexually seductive "angels," women with horns and demonic tails in panties, naked girls with captions like "Good Girls Go To Heaven, images of demons and angels engaged in sex acts and so on is common in those networks. Women have always been the devils favorite weapon to bring God's creation hellward. Churchs have their own online Social Network just like Satan has his full of those being prepared for the frying pan. You see no one batting an eye at two 15 or 16 year old boys or girls of the same sex kissing passionately in public. In fact many parents want their kids having sex at home (where the parent is) rather than in the streets.. Imagine that..

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